Maybe you've heard the Serenity Prayer... God, grant me the serenity To accept the things I cannot change; The courage to change the things that I can; And the wisdom to know the difference . Clearly there are religious conotations to this, not least the word 'prayer'. Let's park those, this is not a theology blog. Also, you may know that it is widely adopted by Alcoholics Anonymous as a 'motto'; which, I'll admit, kind of dents it for me, although a fair amount of IT management is done over a beer, so maybe it's not such an irrelevant fact. An internet search will give more origins of the prayer - Wikipedia cites the theologian Reinhold Niebuhr as the author. Personally, I came across it as the first line on Sinead O'Connor's album 'I Do Not Want What I Haven't Got', and it's stuck in my mind ever since. So, how relevant is it to IT Management? Overlooking the religion of IT Management and the alcoholism that is required...